Some divorced couples can go their separate ways. For others, parents in particular, it simply isn’t that easy. Divorced parents have to go on and function as co-parents usually.
While it is perfectly possible for co-parents to get along, it isn’t always easy and it can take time. Arguments are something that are best avoided. How can co-parents try to avoid them?
Stick to the custody order
In some cases, parents agree on a workable parenting plan. In other cases, the court will step in and draft a custody arrangement based on the best interests of the child. Once a custody arrangement has been approved by the court, it is legally binding.
One or both parents may not agree with the custody order, but this doesn’t matter- it is still legally binding. Modifications can be made but they must be formally requested and be based on the best interest of the child.
If a parent does not stick to the custody order, this will be a definite source of disagreements.
Let go of the past
Once the divorce has been finalized, the romantic side of the relationship is over. It can help co-parents to think of divorce as a clean slate. Bringing up past arguments is not going to be productive for anyone. That’s why it’s important that both parents let the past go if they can.
Prevention is better than cure when it comes to co-parenting disagreements. Having a sound child custody arrangement will help with this. To protect your parental rights and your child’s interests, seeking legal guidance is another essential step.